“Hey! I saw your hiking pics, they look so pretty. I love hiking, too!” “I’ve never met another person who does roller derby! How often do you hit the rink?”
“That pic of your pup is so cute! How old are they?” “Have you ever been to the rose garden?”
“How long have you been in San Francisco?” “Do you like living here in Minnesota?” “What’s your favorite thing about living here?”
“You’ve got to watch that new Netflix documentary about mushrooms. It’s insane!” “Are you gonna go see the new Batman movie? I’m pretty curious about it, honestly. ”
“You have such a nice smile! It really shines through in all your pics. ” “You look like you have such a good fashion sense. I love your outfit in that first pic!” “You have such a good sense of humor. I can tell you’d be fun to hang out with. ”
“Red Sox fan, huh? You must be pretty bummed out this season!” “You’ve never seen Twilight?! Wow, idk if this will work out. 😉”
“What would you do if a zombie apocalypse started right now?” “Would you rather fight 10 duck-sized horses or 1 horse-sized duck?”
If you do decide to give out your digits, say something like, “I’m not on this app a ton. Here’s my number if you want to keep chatting. ”
Say something like, “I’ve really enjoyed our convo so far. Are you free this weekend to grab coffee or a drink?” Sometimes, people are a little wary about meeting up in-person too soon. If the person you’re chatting with wants to talk online a little more before meeting up, don’t be offended! They’re probably just trying to be safe.
You could suggest it by saying something like, “I really like chatting with you! Do you have time for a video call this evening? I’d love to hear your voice. ”
If anyone ever sends you creepy messages, feel free to block and report their profile. Try to be reasonably sure that they are real and not a scammer. Make sure that the person is following a nice conversation and not asking you about your money.